Posted by: Ryan on: August 18, 2008
From A Womyn’s Ecdysis:
There is no current US Women’s Movement. There is no US Feminist Movement. What is it that we face? The face of the US movementS change with community and by geography. It changes with all the things that make up the intersection of intersectionality. It is no wonder so much argument and fighting occurs – so many women believe their agenda is the most important. Intersectionality is the tool to help you clarify the dynamic of your own kyriarchal oppression and ALSO to equip yourself to ultimately CHOOSE how to resist. Understanding intersectionality has become the limbo for US media-driven feminists. We wait there until we “get it.”
The danger of intersectionality is that it is often mixed in as an objective of US feminism, not a tool of alliance work or consciousness-raising. It’s a method, not a goal. The perception is that we can’t move forward until we understand the condition of Asian Americans, or disabled womyn, or Black lesbian and queer activists. That is not intersectionality, that is stupidity. There is and should not be One Movement for US womyn because we are as diverse in need as we are in faith, values, and life exposure. Intersectionality is a TOOL, nothing more. We are to first understand ourselves in the context of a kyriarchal system before we can critically understand the condition of other womyn. It’s not oppression olympics, it’s humbling self-decentering. My own story is significant. It is sacred. In studying my own life’s meaning, I uncover the stories of others whose own lives are also significant and sacred. Holding both is not giving up my own power or agenda. Recognizing other lives and individuals and populations does not negate or change the course of my struggle. It enriches it with the power of knowledge, alliance, and shared hope.
I’ve learned that I can carefully be an advocate for womyn’s liberation, but I must fight and live with chosen direction and purpose to truly impact my own community.
There must be action. There must be a statement
Yes.
We don’t all have to fight for the same thing. There doesn’t need to be One Cause that we all fight for. We should all be fighting for what is important to us in our little corner of the world, with other people that think that is important too.
For example, I don’t give a fig about Michfest. OMG, yes I said it!
I don’t care that women aren’t being allowed into Michfest just cos they aren’t ‘womyn-born-womyn’.
You see, Michfest happens in another country. A country to which I have never been, will hopefully never have to go. It is a music festival, to which I have never been, and will never go to. I don’t know anyone who has been, or will go, or would even want to go there.
What I care about is HREOC’s Gender Diversity Project. My t-boy groups BBQ’s, lunches, and dinners. Making a float for Mardi Gras. Hanging out with the local trans community. Making sure people aren’t giving me and my friends shit for being who we are. Making sure that those lesbians I know at Uni can get married some day, and have a honeymoon like they’ve been dreaming of.
These are causes that are important to me. I only have so much energy, so much time, so much to give. If anyone comes to me and asks for a concrete instance of help… a donation, a signature, help them paint a banner, write a letter to a member. I will help if I have the smallest sympathy for their cause.
However, my schedule is full. I learn, I try to understand, I try to be aware. I try to tread lightly, and I ensure that fighting for my rights does not lead to the degradation of another minorities rights… however, there are some things that I just don’t care about.
Michfest is one of them.
Solidarity does not mean that I have to lay down my interests and causes and fight only for the One True Cause. It means that we should do our best to ensure our battles aren’t railroading the battles of other groups will less power than us.
What a surprise: another trans man who doesn’t give a shit about trans women being booted out of women’s spaces, as long as he’s getting his.
What the hell happened to you?
You’re being obtuse. I don’t want to go to Michfest. It’s my idea of hell.
I care that it’s pretty much the lynchpin for the movement to expel trans women from women’s spaces in North America, and by precedent much of the Western world. It has been used as a precedent countless times to kick trans women out of shelters, rape crisis centres, and a bunch of other services that we desperately need. This is why desegregating that event will always be much more than “just a music festival.”
…and why I hope that trans men, who don’t face this particular brand of shit, would be a little more hesitant before throwing their weight around on such a thing.
There was a fairly highly publicised case of this happening in a shelter in Melbourne a couple of years ago, which went to VCAT and we lost; there’s been a very similar shitfight over a festival in South Australia which I believe is ongoing now. It was only ten years ago that we were having vehement battles over a couple of our most prominent lesbian festivals; I’m genuinely not sure where those festivals stand today. It’s not just something the Americans do.
…and even if it doesn’t affect me personally right now, because I live in about the one fuckin’ place in the universe where transfolk get an easier ride, I *do* give a shit that a load of other women like me get absolutely fucked by this stuff.
It’s one thing to acknowledge that you only have so much resources, and so much time, and there’s only so much stuff you can actively do things about. These last few months, there’s an awful lot of things that haven’t been falling into that category for me.
It’s another thing entirely to say that you “don’t give a shit”, especially when it concerns something of which you’re a group that’s on the privileged side of that issue. The first makes you human. The second makes you an asshole.
1 | Tarald
August 19, 2008 at 9:22 am
I totally agree! I don’t care about Michfest either. Pick your fights.