Posts Tagged ‘coming out’
Acceptance Never Gets Old
Posted by: Ryan on: April 25, 2008
In the post responding to Saint being a douche on my blog, Gender Outlaw left this comment:
I hope Saint gains some understanding from your thoughts in this post.
I try to remember that non-trans people simply haven’t explored these issues as much as trans people have, so it’s up to us sometimes to share the light.
I [...]
Not So Guilty…
Posted by: Ryan on: January 29, 2008
I’ve been feeling guilty for misrepresenting myself to society.
THATS FUCKED UP.
I haven’t been misrepresenting myself to society! Society assigned its own meaning to me, and I went along with the status quo, because, lets face it, we are NOT born revolutionaries. We need to unlearn the ideas pressed on us from our earliest understanding, and [...]
The Ten Steps to Sanity
Posted by: Ryan on: January 1, 2008
So I spent my New Years Eve reading Man Made Language, and Full Frontal Feminism. (I really must get around to reading some of the negative opinions of Full Frontal Feminism, cos I didn’t see much of a problem with it… but then, that is probably my white privilege showing)
This is the sort of dorky [...]
Coming out bit by bit…
Posted by: Ryan on: December 28, 2007
So I officially came out as a Lesbian on my 22nd Birthday. I had been kinda out as a bisexual for quite a while, so it wasn’t really that big a deal to most of my friends. I don’t think that many of them understood the distinction I was placing on Officially Coming Out, as [...]
The Toilets are Square
Posted by: Ryan on: October 19, 2007
- In: Sexuality| culture
- 2 Comments
So I ventured out to the gay club last night.
My initial impression was that it was much camper than I expected. Sparkles, rainbows, cushions, poles for dancing etc. I am not sure WHAT I expected, after all, the only gay bar I have ever seen is the Lesbian bar in “The First Wives Club” when [...]
What the People Want!
Posted by: Ryan on: October 18, 2007
- In: Sexuality| culture
- 4 Comments
So, I have all these groovy little statistic trackers set up on the blog this time, so that I can keep abreast of TRENDS. This means that I can give you, my loyal readers, more of what you are looking for.
I noticed that someone tag-surfed their way over here in response to my ‘coming out’ [...]
A Birthday, and a New Career
Posted by: Ryan on: October 17, 2007
With my birthday every year, a massive change arrives. This year is no exception. I am now 22 years old, and one week before my birthday I found myself unemployed. This may sound on the surface like a bad thing, after all, if you read my old blog at all, you would be aware that [...]
- genderkid: Oh dear. I'll have to save some of my favorite posts to my computer, then! But it's great to know that you're moving on to bigger and better things
- genderkid: Hope you're well. I enjoyed your posts; you were one of the first blogs I subscribed to. Maybe you're too busy with life to write: that would be gr
- Alan: Yeh, what's going on? We miss you... and your Twitter account's been deleted. What's happened?? Are you ok?
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